The Starting Line
Life, like traveling, is a journey full of unseen challenges and unexpected encounters. Just like in Texas Hold’em, it’s not just about what cards you hold; it’s about what others think you’re holding—and sometimes, it goes five layers deep.
The Path
As I sit in the airport, watching life unfold, I’m reminded of how each place has its own rhythm, much like the stereotypes we encounter. We all have biases; they’re part of being human. But awareness of them can be enough to break the harmful ones and reinforce the good.
During my travels, I’ve noticed that these stereotypes aren’t just superficial—they influence how we interact, sometimes before a word is spoken. It’s like playing cards in Texas Hold’em: you’re constantly considering what others think you’re holding, and sometimes you’re several steps ahead—or behind. The art of bluffing isn’t just in the game—it’s in how we present ourselves to the world, navigating perceptions and realities.
I’ve spent so much time hedging, staying silent, and trying to see things from every angle that I sometimes forget to live in the moment. Overthinking, like overplaying your hand, can lead to missing out on life’s simple joys.
Know the stereotype to break society’s perceptions of the bad ones, double down on the ones that ring true, and keep going about your business. Being aware of stereotypes allows us to navigate the world more freely, without being bogged down by them. But it’s crucial to know when to break the bad ones and use the good ones when they’re true.
The Finish Line
So, keep going about your business, aware of the stereotypes but not controlled by them. Laugh, enjoy life, and remember: it’s not just about the cards you hold—it’s about controlling the uncontrollable. Next time you find yourself in a new place or situation, take a moment to reflect on the stereotypes at play—both yours and others. I’d advise you to sit long and deep about yourself and your own stereotypes.
Stay Liberated,
Peace be the journey,
-Ace
One Way Grit 